I heard a comment on CNN this morning that was a little ridiculous: “We’re all in this together.”
Do you feel like you’re part of the reason for the economic crisis and were you consulted? Do you feel like you should suffer the pain because of your individual decisions? Do you feel like: “We’re all in this together?” Perhaps you feel just a little more like a woman that has just been raped?
Rob Walker, in his book Buying In, has a chapter called: “The straw man in the gray flannel suit” that talks about the death of The Organization Man.
I agree with this marketing book that social groups and branding are still strong and built around reciprocity and trustworthiness (cults if you will). Are we seeing the “Culting of American?”
The chapter talks about loners that developed the skateboard culture: “They had their skateboards, and they were the only ones who would say, ‘What’s up?’ And the next thing you know, I’m a punker, out of nowhere.”
“Consider, for example, the Red Hat Society, notable for bright costumes, exuberant group behavior, and the fact that it is made up of women age fifty and over. Here the subculture motive is to challenge the way that society expects older women to behave. ‘It’s a very genuine feeling–You need to get off the stage now and go sit somewhere in the back,’ Sue Ellen Cooper, the sixty-year old ‘founder and Queen Mother’ of the society, told me. ‘Well, no. I’ll tell you when I’m ready to do that.’ This is not exactly the same as punk’s generalized middle finger to society, but there is an element of refusal to go along with mainstream values–a bit of an ‘up yours’ to assigned social roles.
Founded in 1998, the society had within seven years signed up about 850,000 members worldwide. It also operated a three-thousand-square-foot retail shop, had twenty-six licensing deals, and sold hundreds of products through department and specialty stores as well as its website, including at least thirty varieties of actual red hats. …What these women do when they meet is, basically, goof off. Fred Cohen of the film production company Creative Presentations has, while working on a Red Hat documentary, recorded Red Hatters engaged in everything from drum circles to fashion shows to dance parties to huge conventions where they gather in the thousands.”
Could you start a business that has 850,000 customers worldwide?
Perhaps the days of someone telling us: “We’re all in this together” are long over. Perhaps we’ll tell them when we’re in it together and when we’ll get off the stage while others take over? Some look at CNN, NBC, Fox, (MSM) long-term like they look at the 1949 play Death of a Salesman (Willy Loman).


